Saturday, November 27, 2010

Embroidery and Other Lost Arts

In preparation for last week's baby shower for Irene, we guests received a square of flannel along with instructions to decorate it in whatever way we wished--paints, buttons, applique, etc. Also, we were to write a note about WHY we had chosen our design, which was to pertain to Irene, the expected baby girl, babyhood, parenthood, whatever.

The square I received was a solid dark brown. What? A baby quilt with dark brown in it? Nevermind. I decided to embroider it with a star. My note to Irene would explain that as I rocked baby Rachel I often sang "Twinkle, twinkle, little star." In the "How I wonder what you are" part of the song I would think about how I wondered how she would turn out--this baby, then this toddler--my own star.

Embroidering the flannel square--hah! First, I haven't embroidered for many years--decades, actually. Second, I didn't have any of the necessary supplies, being floss and an embroidery hoop. My friend Doris came to my rescue with the supplies, and to get a CLUE as to what the backstitch might actually look like I pulled out the fabulous, much cherished, quilt that Mom made when I was pregnant with aforementioned baby Rachel. She stenciled pictures from coloring books onto fabric pieces that she then mailed to family and friends with instructions to embroider the pictures and also their name. The most wonderful part--the part that makes me weep with joy and love and the memory of it--was that each contributor actually DID it--actually embroidered a quilt section and sent it back. OMG. Could this ever happen today? Answer: no. And that was a mere 30-some years ago.

How I cherish this quilt, with sections from all of my three grandmas (yes, three--there was a divorce when my dad was a boy), my best friends, my sisters, Tom's mom and sisters (for those of you who don't know, Rachel's dad and my second husband are both named Tom), my cousin, Rachel's future cousins.

The quilt now resides in my cedar chest, but that is ridiculous. I plan to hang it and decorate the guest room in yellow-complementing colors. I've made it quite clear to Rachel that although this is her baby quilt, it is not really HERS, since all of these contributors were doing it for me and her father, not HER. They didn't even KNOW her. In other words, she can pry it from these cold, dead hands.

3 comments:

  1. Your quilt square looks really good. Which cousins did squares? I seem to remember a Bill and Dave square. Erin and K must've done one? Greg might've been too little? If all the cousins on Daddy's side did one, it would be a lot bigger.

    Just think, if you had known I was a girl, you would have a pink quilt and then could decorate the room in pink instead of awful yellow. And that is why you should always find out the sex of the baby.

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  2. I am SO with you on wishing the quilt were pink. Have given serious consideration to redoing the yellow part.
    Denise did one. Greg and Gene contributed to one with Joie (better check with her on whether they actually did stitches). Kristyn and Billy were together on one, Dianne and Dave, and another one with Dianne, Fred, and Erin. Also, had NO memory of this--Jane and Ara did one.
    Finally, there is one with initials "SB." Perhaps Sera?

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  3. Marian, what a lovely story! I LOVE the quilt square you gave me and will certainly treasure the completed quilt for many years to come. You'll have to show me in person the one that was made for you when you were expecting Rachel-- it looks just stunning!

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